Dishes from My Childhood: Salmon Cakes


Salmon Cakes

Salmon Cakes

People always ask the question, “where did you learn to cook?”  Sometimes, my snotty response is something like, “well, my mother was such a bad cook that I knew there had to be something better, so I learned how to cook the right way.”  This is not entirely true.  Hope was not one of the great chefs of the world, but she did the best she could.  She had a fussy husband (and my two finicky brothers) whose culinary spirit of adventure was non-existent.  The man refused to eat rice, for crying out loud!  As she said, he would have been happy eating bologna sandwiches on preservative-rich white bread for the rest of his life.  One thing I never appreciated until later was the fact that Hope is actually an adventurous eater, and one who truly relishes the taste of food.  Sadly, my dad never got it.  My mom said that the military ruined any chance for Carter to actually like food; eating was always just perfunctory to him.   

One of the greatest things I can thank mum for is exposing me to fruits and vegetables that were not part of a normal kid’s diet (at least for where and when I grew up).  We had pomegranates, kiwis, starfruits, papayas, and many other exotic treats after dinner, just me and mum.  My dad was completely uninterested and I think my brothers just never saw the point in eating such things.  When my aunt Louella brought a case of artichokes from California with her on a visit, you can bet that it was me, mum, and Lou who ate every single one.  I must’ve been about six or seven then, and I am grateful for the memory of eating those huge, crazy thistles for the first time.   

Beyond the exotic fruits and vegetables there are certain things that Hope prepared that I still love.  It has a lot to do with nostalgia, but I do think that certain dishes really were just plain good, at the root of them.  Her stew made of potatoes, bacon, and green beans, for example, is simple food designed to fill you up with very little cost; you change it up a bit and suddenly, it is a rich, smoky, warm potato salad laced with vinegar and grainy mustard.  Her roasted brisket with carrots and potatoes informs my holiday preparations every year.  She also taught me to make simple, delicious, and tasty salmon cakes.  There are no secrets here – just a few simple ingredients and some messy hands.  What’s great about them is how quickly they come together for an easy meal, and if you try them once, I think you’ll find yourself keeping the ingredients for them on hand at all times.  Don’t be scared of canned salmon, but if you are not into cleaning it up with your hands, you can get skinless, boneless versions in either smaller cans or in those foil pouches – just be prepared to spend a little extra money there and to miss some of the good fats that are in the salmon skin.  If you are like me, as soon as these hit the pan, you’ll be back in your childhood home on that first spring day when it was warm enough to have the windows wide open.  *sigh*  Love you, mumma.

Cocktail of the Week: The Viola


The Viola

The Viola

Sadly, our dear friends Allison and Mark lost their grandmother, Viola, this past December. She had moved into a new apartment in August of last year, where she received a little more assistance when she needed it. As Allison and Mark’s mom, Bethany, and her husband, Harold, were discussing the new place and some of the new items they needed to pick up for Viola (new coffee pot, new TV), she interrupted, asking, “More important than any of this, is there a nice cabinet for the liquor?” Bethany just laughed and said, “You know, we already checked that out when we visited! There’s only one problem: it’s above the refrigerator and Harold is the only one who can reach it. I’m not sure that’s going to work very well. I think you’d have to drag a chair over if you wanted to get at it.” Then Harold said, “Yeah, maybe that’s not such a good plan considering you just fell earlier this week.” Viola replied, “I don’t know…I think reaching for a bottle of Wild Turkey sounds like a good way to go.”

My kind of lady.

Collectively, the Bun and I only talked with Viola a handful of times, but it was obvious to us how much she meant to her family and how much her family meant to her. As she would have wanted, the whole of her clan was celebrating her life in Michigan (her home state) a few weeks ago. We decided that this week’s cocktail should be in her honor. This is a sweet, but spicy take on a Manhattan and an Old-Fashioned, using fresh Michigan cherries and (what else?) Wild Turkey.

Cheers, Vi!

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Sloppy Joes (and Lentil Salad)


Sloppy Joe Dinner!

Sloppy Joe Dinner!

Yes, I work in advertising, but I still have trouble admitting when it works on me.  Watching the TV the other night, a (somewhat cute) Manwich commercial came on and the Bun turned to me and asked, “do you like Sloppy Joes?”  Sheepishly, I said that I did and would gladly eat one that very moment.  We agreed that we would make Sloppy Joes, but our own special version, of course.  I haven’t had Manwich since I was a kid, and even then, I am pretty sure my mom just made her own version from scratch.  Judging from the images on the commerical, it isn’t a terribly complex set of ingredients, and I am quite sure that some sort of added sugar or high-fructose corn syrup plays a role.  We decided that it couldn’t be that hard and would take cues from the seasonings we use in Bolognese Sauce and in Bloody Mary mix.    

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